Reflection

2020 has been a tough year for everyone. For our country, there have been political battles, social injustice, and a divide that some of us haven’t experienced in our lifetime. We also have been dealing with a worldwide pandemic. When something like this happens, there is no playbook on what to do because each time it’s different. As we head into the new year, I hope that things get better for everyone. I want to take this time to do some reflecting on some of the positive that this year has brought.

For my family, this year has been full of blessings and heartache. We spent more time with our children and got some of our home renovations done. We had a couple of career changes and a graduation. We also lost our beloved family dog. My relationship with my husband grew stronger and the bond we share with the kids intensified. Reaghen and Barrett also grew closer and learned some hard lessons. Reaghen discovered the truth about Christmas but is also excited to be the magic for her little brother and the younger kids around us. They also got to witness real life super heroes in the people around us.

One of my dearest friends gave birth to her first child during the pandemic AND while her husband was away serving his country. The strength that she has shown, and continues to show, is something that I want my children to understand and learn from. People like her are one in a million. They also watched another dear friend compete for a well-deserved crown. They continue to watch her serve her community, her country and be a helping hand whenever she can. She chases her dreams and supports those around her in every way she can. Her unwavering love and support for others is something I want my children to grow up to have. Another friend made the life altering decision to trust her heart and put herself and her child before convenience. She works long and hard to ensure she gives her child everything she deserves. Her perseverance and dedication to find happiness within, embodies what I want for my children.

Even though this year has been tough, we owe it to ourselves and those around us to look at the positives that have come too. I hope that 2021 treats everyone a bit better, but until then, keep grindin!

Tell me about your positives!

Stay strong mommas!

Xoxo

Becca